Well it probably is and isn’t what you think.
I have spent the vast majority of my life beating the shit outta myself for little mistakes and believing I was essentially worthless as person and therefore had little if any value to anyone. That is a Fucking Suckass place to be, (Mistakes are fantastic teachers, more later.)
I’ve lived 180° away from Arrogance. Shrinks might say I had an Inferiority Complex. I would say they be some correct mofos.
So at present, I AM USING the concept of Arrogance to drag my inferior thinking ignorant ass outta that BS complex I grew up with and into. NOW, the plan is NOT a 180° swing. Rather the plan is a 80° to 100° Paradigm Shift.
In the common sense of the word I will never actually be arrogant.
I will BE confident, I will be assertive, I will BE ME.
If anyone has a problem with this, the problem is theirs, in fact they are their problem. Bite ME! 🙂